Maria asks… My girlfriend cheated on me, please give me tips on what i should do? I have been dating with my girlfriend for 1 year and 2 months now. I am a jealous person and it really makes me insecure seeing her talking to other guys. She’s a very a quiet person who’s very shy. I am also a very quiet and calm person. I found out 2 days ago that she kissed a guy. Long story short, they were “friends” according to her. I had been warning her to please stop making me more insecure and paranoid by talking to guys because I did not like the feeling of competing for my own girlfriend. I had asked her to come with me to a new campus because I wanted her to close to me, and it was there where she met the new “friend” We spent a semester on that campus and we later moved on to a later campus. She says she wants friends, but girls tend to be very mean and she takes it very personal because girls love to talk trash about other people. Apparently, she dislikes that and therefore does not makes friends with many girls. She has 2 main girlfriends whom she talks to . So, the “friend” was sick and she went to the hospital to see him. He reached for her face and kissed her and she kissed back. As you can imagine I am still highly devastated even after a few days. I had already asked her to please stop talking to him long before this crap happened. As you can imagine, I got highly pissed off and yelled at her for doing what she did for hours. Apparently he had been sending her poems through Facebook asking her to be her lover since the summer after we finished the semester on that campus. She told me that she would respond by saying that she already had a lover. This had been going on practically from around May to October, when I found out. She says she never responded in a romantic way, and he was the one insisting for her to be his lover. I am a Biology major and my courses aren’t exactly easy or stress-free. I am almost always under stress due to all the work from school, not only that, but I make myself read computer programming books since I am fascinated with the world of hacking. I feel very hurt because I thought that she would never do this to me. I haven’t stopped sweating for practically 2 days due to all the shock inside flowing through my body. She’s 19 years old and I am 20 years old. We had even talked about getting married after college. I have a sleeping problem. I go to sleep everyday around 2-4 in the morning and wake up at 7 in the morning. (It’s 3am right now) Due to arguments from my insecurity, I broke up with her one night. She texted the guy saying that she wanted to see him. It hurts me very much writing this story. She drove to the hospital and brought him a book. There she apparently visited coming as a “friend” I exceeded the 5,000 word limit. Please read my whole story here http://pastebin.com/Ue5jLEj4 Since Yahoo wouldn’t let me post the whole story. Jonjune answers: Hi from France ♫ Just do from what YOU feel about that, no matter what we think.. If you can forgive her, keep her.. Otherwise well, forget her … Have a nice day, Cat. Michael asks… am i sensitive or weird? when i was young, i couldn’t stop sweating my hand and feet and stomach aches, i still have this occasionally when i have do something when i was something on my mind, i can ‘t do anything properly as i want, i get so loosened at everything because i lose concentration at first i thought that i was doing that, but it’s automatic there are major things on my mind that i think about all the time at first it was not telling someone who raised me about masturbating, i thought that they had the right to know when i get confused about this and mixed thought stay in my head, i get depressed now i constantly have a few points that people on yahoo told me to stay stable i asked if i should pray for forgiveness for something that’s not related to anyone else but god and jesus if someone says something that’s relevant to my thought and fits in well, i think over it again and i get extremely depressed if i can ‘t find a way out from there? 14 minutes ago – 3 days left to answer. Additional Details 11 minutes ago am i considered to be sensitive because i always considered myself to be extremely or at least very insensitive when i had to do piano recitals, my hands would be like i put my hands in water and taken it out and i have to go to washroom everytime and my heart would be pumping in my throat 8 minutes ago i think i used to be unable to bear it if something i did affected other people like the things i said might have affected their decisions then i would feel guilty and i wouldn’t care about what happens to myself 6 minutes ago Jonjune answers: Sweetie, it sounds as if you might have an anxiety disorder but no one here is qualified to say for sure. I would suggest you make an appointment with your doctor and talk to him or her about it. Good luck to you. Joseph asks… am i a highly sensitive person? when i was young, i couldn’t stop sweating my hand and feet and stomach aches, i still have this occasionally when i have do something when i was something on my mind, i can ‘t do anything properly as i want, i get so loosened at everything because i lose concentration at first i thought that i was doing that, but it’s automatic there are major things on my mind that i think about all the time at first it was not telling someone who raised me about masturbating, i thought that they had the right to know when i get confused about this and mixed thought stay in my head, i get depressed now i constantly have a few points that people on yahoo told me to stay stable i asked if i should pray for forgiveness for something that’s not related to anyone else but god and jesus if someone says something that’s relevant to my thought and fits in well, i think over it again and i get extremely depressed if i can ‘t find a way out from there? 14 minutes ago – 3 days left to answer. Additional Details 11 minutes ago am i considered to be sensitive because i always considered myself to be extremely or at least very insensitive when i had to do piano recitals, my hands would be like i put my hands in water and taken it out and i have to go to washroom everytime and my heart would be pumping in my throat 8 minutes ago i think i used to be unable to bear it if something i did affected other people like the things i said might have affected their decisions then i would feel guilty and i wouldn’t care about what happens to myself 6 minutes ago am i a HSP? Jonjune answers: The things you say sound like possible symptoms of Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. I have this mental illness and a lot of times i’d get thoughts in my head i couldn’t get out. I’d feel the need to “confess” things to people I cared about, that really made no sense to tell anyone about. I felt guilty all the time about things that really weren’t even bad. I was always worried some choice I made would end up hurting someone.I also would do things all the time to try to make myself feel better, like washing my hands repeatedly or rearranging things. It got so out of control I had to go on medication and now I feel much better. I finally have control over my life, not OCD. I am not sure if what you have is OCD or something else. But it does seem like you are suffering. I think you should meet with a therapist and try to work on some of these things. Find one you really like and it should be quite helpful. You dont’ deserve to live this way. You are suffering. Please get help. Good luck. Richard asks… Will irresponsible illiteracy, plagiarism and ethical abuse ever stop? I HOPE THAT EDUCATED PEOPLE WILL INTERFERE TO STOP THIS PHENOMENON IN YAHOO , BECAUSE SOME, INSIST TO REPEAT THEMSELVES, ACTING ILLEGALLY. ———————————————————- A post that explains plagiarism and spiritual abuse: http://answers. yahoo .com/question/index;_ylt=Asp_KA6TL224yCU07zghiCin5HNG;_ylv=3?qid=20111003155236AA83gSs ————————————————————- This poem belongs to Alpha Crucis: http://answers. yahoo .com/question/index;_ylt=Aq3p5k9KaQiD7lIgYzbJg4jty6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20111002161610AA4TvWQ Will you r/c/c my poem (Swept Idea) with d/b/b while you do not y/s/s if you may? Swept Idea Beatitude whelmed is visiting my esteem, to coincide with my remorse, and dream, and there, as my unguarded pride rings, another solitude to invent on lost sea links. A shudder from the northern blow travels, an antidote to my soul’s solitude unravels kills silent worlds where my failures hide pushes my suspicion of a dim hope aside. On dark roads my enthalpy is a dull emitter, a fly in skies of a sole try, my altimeter, your memory recounts, my fervor of cauma, a knock on my tearing wound and trauma.. And still.. Today’s dream is one more code, that laughs as only one visitor will approach, a wind carries last year in his cold embrace my one attempt will wipe off, a sand trace. The wind cries; it passes my soul’s burden, a message dim never read, call of a maiden, that invites stranded souls of lost wars, to wait on Heaven roads where ether soars. A swept idea of a smile and another of tear, her ghostly upwardly turned hands and stare, guide my senses and my route towards tides, where I felt her to wait for me inside Hades. Copyright 28377218 r/c/c = read, comment, critique d/b/b = diligence, benevolence, beatitude y/s/s = yawn, sleep, snore ————————————————————— ————————————————————— This post belongs to Happy Hiram, it is resolved and it is a parody of the above mentioned poem of Alpha Crucis. http://answers. yahoo .com/question/index;_ylt=AgA20Qgo7AZ3FrWXSpZX7T6n5HNG;_ylv=3?qid=20111002202133AAn19nK Is this poem about Geography? Smelt An Idea With attitudes of whelps letting off steams to commercialize the Morse Code of dreams my unregulated verse so ripely stinks that I can ‘t even find a rhyme for links. We shutter up the house as braggart blows An urge to solitude strikes un-rabbling souls kissed silent words in failing soft asides looking for what sense this nonsense hides. With dark emitted palsied prose I ‘m smitten that flies beneath all cogent line e’er written; my diseased mind sweats words acroamatic traumatic, wounding, tragic and esoteric. And once again we mention Morse Code Reproach us ’cause our poem’s such a load, Ignore the gibberish, my rhyming farce embrace If you can do it, keeping a straight face. The crowd sighs that my work is such a burden ( I ‘ll let you peek behind the Hellenic curtain behind each stoic Spartan is a war) of barbaric pidgin English following sure. The laughers crack a smile and hide their tears as Homer’s ghost covers his virgin ears, Geographer throws a last swish at the ladies And tells all functional critics “Go to Hades ” T/T/P = Talk, Trash, and Perorate C/W/V = Complain, Whimper and Violate L/A/M = Laugh, Applaud or Masticate Copyright 90210-1492 —————————————————————- Notice that he claims of Copyright, on the abused and plagiarized work. My post to explain of Laws that apply to both: Plagiarism and Spiritual Abuse http://answers. yahoo .com/question/index;_ylt=AkkDCt8d5ILJUgwsn0Goig.n5HNG;_ylv=3?qid=20111003163307AAwYHhV Jonjune answers: Are you having fun, yet? Sharon asks… Time for some more NBA comedy brought to you by TWANBBAJ (AKA ME)? NBA things that are unlikely to happen. Karl Malone magically becoming a vampire and sucking the aids infected blood of Magic Johnson. Lebron James shaking the hands of Kobe Bryant after a 4 game Lakers finals sweep. Q-Rich staying in a city for more than a day. People on Yahoo answers stop asking questions that involve Kobe and Lebron. Michael Jordan tells the dealer at a Vegas casino that he is done with gambling for good. The Clippers become the NBA’s next 3 peat dynasty. Dwight Howard learns a refined post game Wilt Chamberlain rises from the dead to sleep with 20,000 more women. David Stern admits that he had a gun to his head when the Magic beat the Cavs stopping his Kobe-Lebron finals. Big Baby Davis seeks counseling for the abuse suffered at the hands of KG. The fans of the Knicks come to the reality that they will get neither James or Wade in 2010 Yao Ming plays a full season of Basketball Phil Jackson gets really angry at Ron Artest for taking bad shots and burns all his Zen books Tom Heinsohn will final admit that the Celtics do commit fouls and there is not a conspiracy against Boston. Pao Gasol lets brother Marc Gasol dunk on him as a favor to mom. Jameer Nelson learns to step up on guys who can make 3′s Kobe admits he really doesn’t speak Italian and he only does it to attract ladies. Isiah Thomas become the GM of the Grizzlies and leads them to the championship. Jamacian Man doesn’t turn every question/answer into Dirk (Jamacian Man I have nothing but love for you. I respect that you admire Dirk) I finally get back to work and stop messing around on Yahoo Answers everyday. Mehmet Okur beats up Hedo Turkoglu in a street fight of who is the real Michael Jordan of Turkey Shawn Bradley and Manute Bol play a game of one on one for the amusement of the Yahoo fans. Wow what laughs that would be. The Following players lose over 50 pounds on the biggest loser – Stanley Roberts, Loy Vaught, Michael Sweetney, Oliver Miller, and Sean May Allen Iverson stars on his own VH1 love reality show with all 30 NBA teams and the winning gets his worthless services. (but he still refuses to practice) People on yahoo answers know who Michael Cage is without looking him up on Wikipedia or basketball reference.com Gerald Wilkins, Dominique Wilkins, and Damien Wilkins star in the remake of my two dads. It is called why can ‘t my Uncle be my dad. Brad Daugherty gets everyone who is watching nascar to switch over to the NBA on espn. (Kudos if you get this one) Reggie Miller openly admits that his sister is a robot made from his own DNA. Don Nelson and Mark Cuban come out and admit that all their problems stem from a sexual encounter they had during the 2003 western conference finals. The executive brass of the Timberwolves admit that have no clue about basketball and admit drafting 16 PG’s was a mistake. The Yahoo answers basketball section gets over run by Toronto Raptor fans who replace the Kobe-Lebron questions with Calderon-Paul questions. Kareem will punch Andrew Bynum in the sack everytime he doesn’t listen to his advice. Patrick Ewing will pour jars of his sweat on Dwight Howard to repell opposing team defenders. Actually Cookie Man, do your research and check my profile to the questions I ask. Most of them have nothing to do with Kobe nor Lebron. RESEARCH BEFORE YOU ANSWER Just checked Cookie man’s profile and notice that he nevers answers any question I ask or that we have a common question that we have both answered. So how could he make a blanket comment without any research. For those who don’t know Brad Daugherty does Nascar commentary on ESPN and he used to be a former NBA player. thanks for the feedback Big Rob is Back. I appreciate all people’s opinions Jonjune answers: Nice. You had me at Tommy Heinson foul calls. Check, check, is this thing on? Here we go. Ladies and Gentleman Michael Cage “Just let You SOUL GLOOOWW!! Oh so silky smooth. Let all your Soul Glow, Flow right over YOU” Sad I know the lyrics. Http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YPZn7WxuATI&feature=related Shawn Kemp and Calvin Murphy get a sitcom called 2 and 52/2 Men. Now with Soul Glo on my mind, here it comes, check the Q’s. And it looks like somebody missed their Laxative today. Powered by Yahoo! Answers Related Blogs